My best friend is pushing her ex-boyfriend toward me and I don’t know how to feel about it. Both she and her ex are AS Genotype, which is the reason they broke up almost a year ago after dating for three years. They were about to get married when they discovered their genotypes weren’t compatible.
I’m friends with the guy too. While they were together, I often helped them resolve their relationship issues. Whenever he wanted to surprise her, he used me as a go-between. He’s a great guy, I must admit. When they broke up, it wasn’t just my friend who cried—I cried too.
I knew how much he meant to her and how far they had come together.
Not long ago, my friend asked me, “What do you think about Charles? Don’t you like a man like him?”
This led to a lengthy conversation where she made it clear she wouldn’t mind if I dated him. I laughed, thinking it was a joke—but it wasn’t. She told me Charles had asked her to help him find a woman, and I was the only one who came to mind.
Here’s the thing: I would date Charles with my eyes closed if not for their history. I witnessed all the good things he did for my friend. I know his humility, his caring nature, and how he smiles even when he’s upset. But dating him just doesn’t feel right to me. He’ll always be the guy my best friend dated, and if we were to get married, I feel she’d always have a say in our relationship.
I’ve been thinking a lot about the whole situation. My friend has been very persuasive. We’ve discussed the pros and cons, and she insists there’s no issue. I, however, find it weird. Right now, Charles is waiting in the wings. If I give my friend the green light, he’ll call me, and we’ll take it from there.
Do you think this is a good idea? Honestly, I’m laughing as I write this. It feels so strange, especially considering everything I know about their relationship. Wow.
