. my husband is in Europe

my husband is in Europe


My marriage is going to a year, my husband is in Europe and send money to his sister for everything i need

I moved in with her Sister because we sold all our things for him to travel.

Now his sister dictates how i should run my life and my marriage
This is my 6th months in my marriage, my husband stays in Europe, could you imagine I am pregnant and my husband doesn't give me money for my upkeep and personal things, I stay with his sister and everything money goes to her alone, she says what will happen in my marriage and what will not, I am a very quiet type that doesn't complain in whatsoever, but yet, she must find something to tell to my husband that will make him most times, he will not even feel like calling or picking my calls for one week, I am always given 3500 for antenatal through her whenever I have appointments with the doctor
I'm tired, I can't boost of any money to gift to at least my mum instead they are the ones still giving me, sometimes my hubby will tell me to start saving when the 3500 finishes.

My sister inlaw traveled for a month and my husband was giving me small amount of money every 1week to cook soup and stew for me and his two small nieces staying with us, the woman came back, called my husband and told him that the children has reduced in weight and that he shouldn't try and give me a dime again
that I have been saving the money he was giving me I can't even satisfy my cravings as a pregnant woman, I can't even boost of any money of my own, I can't even save up anything when I complained, my husband promised to be giving me 20k every month and did it once and said he doesn't see any need for the money, I would have gone to stay with my mum but I relocated very far away from her immediately after I got married, i am a graduate and sells online things before I married him, like I don't know what to do, I am choked, I am not always happy with myself, I wish pregnancy is not involved with this now, this woman and her brother has ru!ned my life I never wish for this, I regret so many things
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