I am 32yrs of age and I met this guy called JJ in early July this year through a friend. We started chatting online and I fell in love with him and I started visiting, the first day I visited him, he gave me 1500 as tfare and each time I paid him visit he doesn't keep to time and has never offered me a drink except I asked for it and it keeps on going on and on like that. Fast forward to his birthday which I got him gift and still went to his place to celebrate with him. But did you know that the day of my birthday he just posted my pic on his WhatsApp and didn't call me until two days after my birthday, I was still the person that reach out to him first. We both work although is earning more than I do but always giving excuses about finances. This is our fourth month in this relationship. And he has never spend up to 5k on my head. Someday s he might end up not calling and whenever I call him , he will tell me that I should continue treating him well that he assured me that he will repay me for all the kindness. There was a day I told him that communication is very vital in any relationship and that was one of the reasons I fell for him but he has changed completely and he said it was work and there was a day I said I should test him to see if he really cares and I asked him for 5k and I told him that my both acct weren't working, do you know that he told me that he doesn't have a penny in his account too and that was it I started ignoring his messages on Whatsapp. He finds reach out and promised he will never make me feel bad again but yet his attitude tripled. Please I don't know what step to take anymore because am tired. Please I need you advise.
