2021 I and my ex started dating...we dated for 8 months before breaking up......now I'm in a relationship with this guy who loves me so much....but he's broke which I didn't have issue with to begin with until he changed...... I'm a clingy person and he knows....a few weeks after we started dating he didn't let me touch him no more...I go for sleep over at his place and he wouldn't let me touch him or if I touch him...he pushed me away...but when he's in the mood he finds a way to force me even when I say I'm not in the mood...and inbtwn I remember my ex whenever we're having seggs and in my head all I'm planning when moaning is how to go back to my ex and even if it's once again....my present bf takes money from my bag and spends without telling me, he gives me little hits when we argue, he still talks to his ex and asks her to meet up with him, despite his brokeness I still get him gifts almost everytime according to my pocket and he has never for once appreciated it... he's either telling me I should have gotten something else for him or telling me what I got for him looks cheap....so many red flags that I lost count of..... but when I was telling my friend about it..she just advise me to stay in the relationship because there are no better guys outside....I have issues with my apartment and I gave him a little money I saved up to keep for me as that i wouldn't spend it lavishly....he spent my money and didn't even give me any explanation whenever I ask him he says he used it for something.....I have a sugar daddy that is trying for me.. though he's not giving me much but it is better than nothing and my bf told me to stop talking to him....he goes through my phone and questions me on everything he sees on there.....
The problem is I'm scared of running into a worse guy if I opt out of this and I can't stand any of his attitude anymore.... I reduced my standard because of him...he stays in a shabby single face me I slap you room and I didn't consider it as something serious after all everyone started from somewhere, I wash his clothes with my hands something I don't do for my own clothes, I buy the soap with my money, I cook for him with my money ..... I'm in a fix I don't know what to do...I have tried to leave the relationship over 5 times but he keeps coming to beg with different people and we have been together for only 3 months....
