He has epilepsy, but he tricked me into marrying him 😭😭😭
The pain and anger I feel right now are completely unbearable.
I didn't sign up for this Julius, i didn't
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We dated for almost 4 years & he managed to hide his condition from me the whole time. There was absolutely no single sign or hint that he was sick. He never had an epileptic attack while we were dating; I have no idea how he kept it a secret. I never even saw any of his medicines.
Actually when we met i had long dropped out of school after i lost my mom things became so hard & i resorted to selling tomatoes. He actually suggested i take up a nursing profession And he sponsored my education of which i now work as a nurse. All that time. I was very busy and was in school. We hardly spend much time, cuz he got me registered in another town where i schooled & i mostly visited only on weekends.
I was extremely shocked and terrified when he had a seizure in our house, just one month after we got married. We were simply talking, and suddenly, he fell to the floor, shaking, with foam coming from his mouth. We were all alone, and I panicked, running out of the house to call for help from his neighbors.After he recovered, he actually got angry at me for calling the neighbors and embarrassing him. Seriously, which one of us has the right to be angry here?? Even his whole family knew about his health issue, and not one person told me anything. I don't want to continue with this marriage cuz I truly don't believe I can live with such a deception. Also, I don't want to have children who might inherit this condition.
Please, I need to know: If this is a strong enough reason for a divorce? Our church (Catholic) is telling me we cannot get a divorce since the marriage has been completed, but I refuse to believe that. And honestly, I don't even care what the church says right now.
I am completely finished with this marriage.
