Never underestimate how quickly a woman will cut you off if you make her feel like she’s begging for your love. The moment she starts feeling like she has to earn your time, your attention, your bare minimum effort, something in her heart begins to close. She might still reply to your texts. She might still lie next to you at night. But inside, her soul is quietly detaching.
Women don’t beg for love...not the ones who know their worth, not the ones who spent years rebuilding themselves after being broken. They will communicate. They will try. They will give you the space to show up. But if all they get is inconsistency, neglect, and indifference, they won’t stick around. It’s not rejection that scares them...it’s settling.
When a woman realizes she’s pouring herself into someone who treats her presence like it’s optional, she will pull away. Not with anger. Not with drama. But with peace. And that kind of exit hits harder than any loud goodbye because you won’t see it coming. One day you’ll look up and she’ll be gone. Her energy, her loyalty, her softness...all of it...vanished. And you will feel it, not just in the silence, but in the absence of the love you never fully appreciated.
So don’t play with a woman who is willing to love you deeply. Don’t make her feel like she has to chase what should be freely given. Because once she decides she’s done, there is no returning from that kind of grace.
