My wife and I are planning to relocate abroad. She’s a nurse so we are working on her moving first then I follow up when she’s setttled. We got married four years ago, we don’t have a child yet because she wants us to relocate before. She said she wants her kids to have a foreign identity. I got her pregnant once and she actually ab0rted it, so I’ve stopped trying.
I’ve been the financier of her traveling. She was in school when we got married and finished her Rotation last year so she’s leaving this year then I later join. I’ve seen a lot of men being bullied by their women abroad recently on the internet and I’ve since been thinking twice. I need someone to speak to about this before I take the final step. In our four years of marriage,
she’s gone against me several times, ab0rt!ng our child without my consent is one of them. She doesn’t do home chores, we’re always buying out, I do the cooking and cleaning most times.
Once a while then she comes in to help. I’ve complained times without number and what she says is it’s our home so we both can do it. This is a woman who’s 31 years old already.
Four times, she’s locked me outside. Four solid times, I’ve had to sleep outside my own house because we had an argument and before I returned, the door was locked. I go to sleep with my friend when she locks me out and come the next day or days after cuz there was one time she locked me out for five days.
She’s not done any of that since we started processing her traveling. She’s been calm and doesn’t lock me out even if we quarrel. She’s said she’s a changed person now, claiming she’s learning and a whole lot.
I’m not saying I don’t believe her, and I’ve honestly forgiven and forgotten all those things, they’re in the past. I haven’t even thought of them much again in a while. It’s just some days ago I watched another video of a man being sent out of home by the wife abroad and I was thinking twice about this whole thing.
I’m honestly scared, considering my wife’s record with me. We dated for 3 years before getting married. I’m sacrificing all my savings to send her abroad. We should reap this in future but what if, she turns out to be one of those women? What do I do? Is this worth it in the first place or she should just be here and get posted by the government and work in Ghana? We are fine financially, I earn close to Ghc 7,000 monthly. We don’t lack anything. Someone else should access my situation and tell me an honest truth! Mrs Meda
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