RECENTLY, MY WIFE HAS REFUSED TO CONTUNUE HANDLING OUR FAMILY RESPONSIBILITIES JUST BECAUSE I MARRIED MY PREGNANT SIDE CHICK. I WANT TO SUE HER FOR THIS...
My wife runs a big shop, while I manage to get by with small jobs. We usually share the bills. She pays the rent of 150,000, electricity, water, school for the kids, and health care. I take care of the cooking, cleaning and food stuff in the house
One day, just like any man, I started seeing a young woman who is 22 years old, and she got pregnant. As a good Christian, I didn't want to ask for a divorce, and I couldn't have a child without being married.
So, I decided to tell my wife the truth. I told her I wanted to take the young woman as a second wife. At first, she refused, but after I insisted a lot, she finally said I should do what I wanted.
I used my little savings to pay the bride price. A few months later, I got married.
But since my second wife came to live with us, my first wife changed completely. I feel like she has betrayed me. She wont pay for anything anymore.
She says if I had the courage to take another wife, I can take care of it all. For two months, I paid for everything, but now I cant keep up. It has been three months since I couldn't pay the rent.
I have run out of money, and my second wife does not work. I cant keep up with her needs, and I am scared she will cheat on me by talking to her ex-boyfriend.
I have begged my first wife to help pay the rent because the landlord is threatening to kick us out. She says if we get thrown out, she will rent a place with our four children.
I told her that we will follow her anywhere because we are bonded by sacred marriage. she is already trying to keep the kids away from me.
She looks after the children and doesnt pay attention to me. She eats good food with the kids and does not invite me.
My second wife's uncle works at the court. She told me we should file a complaint against my first wife for abandonment and negligence.
She will have to sign something and take care of her family responsibilities.,
Should I do this? Please help me; I dont know how much longer I can hold on.
