He would come and have dinner with us on a daily basis and vice versa. He doesn't have any siblings but I have 2 older sisters. Which is very important as he was also very close with them.
He helped me deal with my anxiety and even when I gained a little weight and my mother castigate me saying he was going to leave me, he told her off and said he loved me for who I was, and not for what I looked like.
We were only engaged for 6 months before the incident.
My elder sister, who I didn’t really see eye to eye because she was a very cold person who never showed any affection, but I loved her dearly because she was my sister. She had a thing for my fiancé as she only opened up to him, she saw him as a brother and he also helped her through a lot of her dark times such as battling drug addictions and breaking the law.
Out of the blue she tells me she wants to take me clubbing as we had never been out together before and she felt bad that she was so distant to me.
I agreed and that night we went out.
Clubbing wasn't really my style but once I had a few drinks, I loosened up a little and began having fun.
The night was going smoothly until my Sister spotted a guy across the room whom she claimed she wanted to "climb like a tree" She walked over to him and within a few minutes she was back and she had a sad expression on her face.
I asked her what was up but she never said anything.
I kept pressing because I didnt want our night to be ruined, she then told me the guy didn't want her number but he wanted mine instead.
I told her he was a loser and there were plenty of guys around who would kill to be with a girl like her, she didn't budge though.
She told me she needed to use the restroom and then we would leave.
I waited for over an hour, during this time I was sipping on a lot of different cocktails, I then started feeling really dizzy and lightheaded.
I figured I'd just cab it home as I was certain my Sister had left.
On the way out, I bumped into a friend of my sis whom she had briefly dated.
He asked me If I needed a hand to my car and I explained I was getting a cab, he said he was getting ready to leave and we could share one. I told him okay and we walked out of the club together and into the first cab we saw.
I tried to find my phone in my purse but I felt myself getting dizzier and dizzier.
I don't remember what happened next as I blacked out and the next morning I woke up on a hard sofa, my head pounding.
I realised I was in my Sister’s friend’s house and my phone was sitting on the glass table in front of me, but it was dead.
When he noticed I was awake he offered some tablets and water and explained that I had passed out in the cab and he didn’t remember my parents address so he just picked me up and took me back here where he laid me on the sofa.
I told him I needed to go home as my fiancé would be worried.
He called a cab and I left. When I arrived at my parent’s house, my mother, father, elder sister, my fiancé and his parents were all standing in the living room.
I thought they were worried about me but the moment I opened my mouth my fiancé asked how could I do this to him?
I tried to explain that my phone went flat but he then went on screaming about how could I cheat on him.
I was baffled. Why would he think that? I tried to explain the nights events but I kept getting cut off.
My elder sister then chimed in and said I was a liar and how could I be so heartless to a man who has been there for me through thick and thin.
She went on to say I kept flirting with random guys all night and then when she went to the bathroom, she saw me leave with her friend.
I told her what had happened and she showed me photos on her phone where as we were leaving, his hand was on my back ushering me outside, yes the photo did look horrible and I was so drunk I didn't even realise his hand was on my back at all.
My fiance was so angry, he kept shouting and his mum and mine were both crying.
I then asked my elder sister to call her friend and he would confirm Nothing happened but when she called him, he told a completely different story.
He said I begged him to take me back to his and when he did, we slept together multiple times.
I started crying and yelling at my elder sister because I knew she had organised this whole thing to make me look bad.
I begged my fiance to believe me, but he just shook his head and left. When everyone had cleared out, my mother slapped me across the face and told me to get out.
I left and went to a friends house where I stayed for a few nights. During those nights I called my fiancé crying and pleading with him to believe me that nothing happened but it all fell on deaf ears as he never returned any of my calls or texts.
My mum texted me and told me she was kicking me out and that she couldn’t believe I would do such a thing and she called me a lot of hurtful other slurs.
I was homeless and single in less than a day and a half, my entire world had been taken away because of my sister’s lies.
For weeks, I tried everything to convince my fiancé and my family to no avail
I cried for days before deciding to block them all. I even returned my engagement ring.
My friend knew someone a couple hours away who was looking for some help in his restaurant and he even had living arrangments above where he worked so I could get rent at a cheap price and work at the same time.
I started working there and within some few months, I was able to save up to get a nicer apartment while working in the restaurant as an assistant manager.
Now it has been roughly two years since I left and have not spoken to any of my family. I have no idea what is going with them until I got a knock on my door.
It was my ex fiancé. I was shocked to say the least, all these feelings came rushing back and all I wanted to do was jump into his arms.
But then I remembered the pain I had felt and tried to slam the door in his face but he stopped it and asked that I let him explain.
He said that my elder sister had gotten married and she had confessed that she lied about the situation because she had found someone she loved so much and realised what a horrible thing she had done to me.
I asked him how he found me and he said my friend told him.
My entire family had been trying to get in touch with me and wants to see me.
I told him I needed time to think about it.
He left and I have been a mess since.
I don't know what to do, I know I will never ever forgive my elder sister, she could rot in hell for all I care but it’s hard because my other family and fiancé didn't know she was lying, but I also felt like they abandoned me too quickly without letting me explain my side.
I don't know if I should forgive them.
Any advice would be much helpful.
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