So there's this girl I've been dating for the past 3yrs. She is 18 years old
Online dating. Her village is very close to mine. And the transportation is not even up to 200 naira.
But we've not seen each other ever before.
I was in Ss2 when we started dating and she was in ss3.
I'm a one-woman kind of guy and I hate lies and cheating.
So when she was done with secondary school she took jamb immediately and she got admission but she waited for me and the next year I was unable to write my own Jamb because of my financial problems although she suggested she pay the jamb fee for me then I also thought about my school fee and all of that.
It's about the future and not now.
So I told her to forget about my school for now.
So the next year, she sat for the jamb and gained admission.
When this girl entered school.
Although she is a good girl, respectful, and godly.
I trusted the girl so much that I wasn't even bothered about the distance anymore.
So after 1 to 2 yrs.
She didn't bother asking about how we'll see and all of that stuff.
I remember she told me she was a Virgin.
I'm very far from home and I do visit home only in December due to the nature of my work. And she visits the village too when she's on holiday.
So last 2 years December I told her that I wanted to see her and that we should meet she complained and complained and later agreed.
On the very day of her paying me a visit, she gave one excuse that she couldn't make it.
I didn't complain.
didn't talk about us seeing again till when I returned back to my residence.
At times she can stay 2 months without talking to me and chat me whenever she likes.
And for me I let things be and I also see things as if you know what you're doing.
So when she started that attitude I let her be.
I've been so patient.
Last December again she knew I would be asking if we'll see again.
She didn't visit her village she said they're doing practicals in school.
Please which school doesn't allow holidays during December?
As I am talking to you now.
She hasn't talked with me for almost a month now.
On my birthday she just wished me with a few words and posted just 1 of my picture.
And on her birthday.
My contacts got to know that my so-called girlfriend was celebrating her birthday.
Omoh I'm Confused now and I don't know what to do.
I am not a guy who can ask a girl for a breakup or ask whether they're still dating.
I am just here Dump found.
