Hello guys need some advice.
My previous relationship ended last year pretty badly. My ex asked us to end the relationship without giving any tangible reason. Which made me think up to now that maybe i made a mistake falling in love( as in i rushed things) So i kinda don't believe in love anymore. Cos i got all those promises but it ended no where. There's this guy who has been a good friends of mine for like two years now. All this while we do talk and text a lot. With good vibes but we never got the chance to meet up(as in paying each other a visit)because of busy schedule in school,we're both in the same school. But we do meet up on campus. Recently like two weeks ago we started paying each other visits at home and we've gotten intimate. He said in one of our convo some months ago that he doesn't think he can be in a relationship because his previous relationship didn't end well and afraid of how another lady might treat him. So our relationship for the past two weeks is like friends with benefits,no strings attached. But it's seems I've been developing some kind of feeling for him now which I'm not sure if it's love or because of our intimacy. Want to let him know but I'm afraid of two things now
1. I might lose him if i tell him how i feel since he told me in the previous months he isn't emotionally ready yet don't know for now tho.
2. Maybe he might accept these feeling now and agree to as dating but what if what I'm feeling isn't love??
So should I just forget about these feeling and keep up with this relationship or we should talk about it. Cos he once texted me like two days ago that he loves me whiles wishing me a good night. Didn't reply cos i say it to be a typo. And we both never talked about that statement.
And with our intimacy, we've had sex like four didn't occasion but i never came. He's really good in bed but it seems the fault is from me.
NB: he's the first guy I'm having sex with. My ex and I only had the kisses and hugs we didn't get the chance to be that intimate. Cos it was a long distance relationship,we only see each other during vacation. In which our visiting times weren't posible for that
FF. I would like to cum when having sex with him but i don't know how to.
I don't want him feeling bad.😔 We talked about it and he said,he thinks it's my mindset, like if i don't want to cum i wouldn't.
What do I do about that too
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