Please there's a male friend of mine, in fact we've known each other for over 10yrs now. He's loved by my family and vice versa. Sir he's a really good guy.
So apparently he's been in love with me and wish to get married to me. I on the other hand l'm not attracted to him in that way he's more like a brother. But my mum wants me to get married to him and there have been pressure on me. I'll be 30 this year. He's a great guy and I really do like him but not in that way, all I need to do is say yes and we'll be getting married in the next minute. Decided to be intimate with him but it just didn't work. Now I'm worried that if I'll be making a mistake for not marrying him or marrying him. What if I don't marry him and I don't happen to find anyone too since l'm not getting younger( P.S he's not financially responsible for me, because l'm not sure of my decision I don't take anything from him). Please I need your help. And also I tried getting married once but we were not compatible ( sickle cell) so we had to call the marriage off. And I haven't been in any form of relationship again since then. It has always been my guy friend who has been around me since the incident.
Thank you
