Good day, boss. My girlfriend and I have been together for one year and two months. We have never had s3xx before because she insists she will only have s3xx after marriage.
It's not like I met her a virgin, she confessed to me at the early stage of our relationship that her ex never took her serious after he broke her virginity and had s3xx with her multiple times so for now, she will never have s3xx again until marriage. She even swore.
I tried a few times, but she never allowed. She even cried one time and said she was done with me. She ignored me for over a month. I had to keep begging till she gave me a second chance. I love her so I decided to do what she wants. I never asked for s3xx nor insisted on it again. Sometimes, she makes us cuddle a bit or even kisses me, but she always reminds me that she doesn't want it to lead to anything, even before we start. I've to always control myself.
For 14 months, I've not seen my girlfriend's nakedness. I am a few months away from marrying her officially.
Boss Mills, can you believe all these times my girl has been sleeping with her so-called ex-boyfriend?
Hmmmm, she has saved her ex's name as her mother's name. Anytime I see her call history, she and the mom make the most call. I never understood but she said her mother is her everything and she's the only friend she has. She claims to share everything concerning her life with her mother whatsoever. I don't really go through her phone but I had the opportunity to do that on Tuesday and I got the shock of my life.
So she is still with the guy. The guy has made it clear to her that he doesn't want her again but my girl keeps begging him. From their text, she goes to cook, wash and clean for the guy. She sends him money and gives him s3xx. She keeps complaining that the guy only calls her when he needs s3xx or money so she doesn't like it. The guy keeps assuring her that one day he may love her again. She sends him her nudes in different styles and literally begs him if he fails to ask her to come around for a while.
The guy sees my girlfriend to be absolutely nothing. He even abuses her verbally, but she is still clinging unto him. All the times she told me she couldn't close early from work, she had gone to see her mother or she's at church, she spent those times with the guy instead.
She can call me that she needs money urgently and when I send, she forwards it to the guy. The guy sent, I need Ghc 300 urgently. That day she called to ask me Ghc 200 urgently that she will explain later. Only to add up and send to him.
Boss, as I am typing I've gone to do knocking oooo. I'm buying some of the items on her dowry. My parents and hers know of us. It's soo painful. I don't even know what to do. I boast of this girl like she's a god. I do literally everything she needs for her. I've held her in high esteem.
Now that I've caught her, she is promising to change and saying if it's s3xx she is ready to give it to me anyhow I want it. She is saying rubbish Bra mills, I have never been this hurt my entire life. I swear! I can't even stop crying.... What should I do?
