My uncle is a pastor, he asked me if I'm dating and I said yes, showed him her picture and he said "If I ask you to leave her, would you?" I said no, he said "well do, cos she won't help". We had an issue, she blocked me, I vented to this pastor friend of mine, he was like leave her, that's who she is. I ignored, she blocked me twice again after that. So she's blocked 3 times in the space of 1yr
She slept out after work and didn't come home, when she returned in the morning, her mom asked her to leave the house. she came to me and went to beg on her behalf even before she came to my place. right in front of me she blocked her mom and dad. I took her to her parent to beg, her dad told me she's an habitual liar, then it hit, wait I know this
She was with me and a guy kept calling her, she tried hiding the phone, she does that a lot when she's around me and guys are calling her. she later answered and told the guy she's at her cousin's place. I was angry she said that.
Chaley go through your partners' phone, its better to get hurt now than marry and father another man's child. I went through her phone and saw her in another man's house with him in only shorts, in the begining of our relationship she sent me a screenshot cos she had a problem with her phone, I noticed a number saved as "MadeForMe" with lots of love emoji and family and ring emoji, I asked and she said it's her brother and recently I found out it's not her brother but another guy.
Chaley I gave up and deleted my contact, my mom's, sister's and brother's from her phone and all our pictures and asked her not to call me again. I'm tired. So yh, I'm hurting cos I loved her and told my mom, I'm going to marry her, but no I can't live like this for the rest of my life with an untrustworhty person.
