I’ve gotten some lady pregnant but she’s 39 years old. I’m just 29 and married with one child, my wife is 27 and currently pregnant with the second child.
I don’t even have much bro, I’m managing. This 39 year old woman is not even working, and she wants to keep the child.
Bro, she doesn’t have any child, she said she’s keeping it and still demands I support her. I can’t handle two women.
We didn’t even have plans of she getting pregnant, I told her I was married and she said she wasn’t looking for anything serious, that she’s single and alone and needs someone to keep her warm some times.
So we were supposed to be friends with benefits, because that was the deal from the onset.
I was to be using protection but some times she would tell me she’s safe. We started off just February this year and she’s already pregnant and insisting she’s going to keep it.
She’s not even educated, she’s just a petty trader who lives alone in some small single room.
She feels I’m okay financially and wants to force this on me but I don’t want it. She’s too old for me and I’ve too much on my hands already. I can’t add her. Aside that, she’s not my type nor class. I can’t imagine having a child with her. She’s decent and beautiful though but not someone I want to have a child with.
I’ve said all I can but she’s keeping it. It’s making me feel somehow. I’ve been thinking a lot. If this blows it would shame me paaa. I don’t know what I’ll even tell my wife, cuz how do I leave a beautiful young wife to go and impregnate someone old enough to be my mother?
Meanwhile I’ve a pregnant wife?
Please what do I do? I can’t let this continue. I’m not ready at all. She proposed this, not me. I’m just a young guy trying to build myself.
