I'm 21 years old and currently living with my boyfriend. We've been together for four months, and everything was going great until we faced financial struggles. He told me about a female friend who was willing to help us financially, but in return, she wanted s£x.
We had a seri0us conversation about it, and even though I was unc0mf0rtable, I eventually agreed because we had no other option.
The plan was for her to come over while I wasn’t around, so I left. But when I returned, she was still there and refused to leave, claiming my boyfriend was hers and that she was going to spend the night with us. I was completely against it, but my boyfriend insisted there was no choice since it was late, and he claimed the money would be increased. Blinded by the situation, I agreed. That night was sleepless for me, I couldn’t stand the thought of another woman in my bed.
The next morning, she left, and my boyfriend apologized, but I later found out he had lied, there was no money involved in the first place. Worse, they had been messing around before I even knew about her. When I confronted him and threatened to leave, he reassured me that he didn’t love her.
Now, the problem is that she still calls him, and when she does, he picks up and puts the phone on loudspeaker so I can hear their conversations. But whenever I ask him to cut her off, he keeps saying he will, but not immediately because he feels bad for using her.
I'm confused. Should I leave him or stay? I’ve invested so much in this relationship, but I feel hurt and unsure of what to do. I really need advice.
