I've been married for 5 years & have two beautiful daughters for my husband Whom he loves dearly. In the past, we've had issues, but we've always resolved them within 24 hours However, everything changed when a single woman of about 32 years old, a single mom of a 4 year-old son moved into our compound. It's as if she's determined to destroy my home. As old as she is, she's still unmarried neither does she have a man in her life, Instead of finding her own partner, she's constantly throwing herself at my husband.
Whenever my husband & I have misunderstandings, I usually deny him of S£x and at times stop cooking for him. It doesn't matter if i was the one at fault. These tactics usually work because he always apologizes & we'll be happy again
However, since this lady moved in, we've been arguing daily. He now compares me to her, praising her as a hardworking woman who manages her home & child well. All these bothers me. As a career woman, my job demands most of my time, making me arrive home late everyday after my husband. But this neighbor takes advantage of my absence, cooking for my husband & getting close to him.
She even started this habit of cooking for my husband & brings food to my home, pretending to be a good neighbor. I've confronted her on several occasions to stop talking to my husband nor come anywhere close to him but she wouldn't listen. It has gotten to the extent where, my husband now threatens for a divorce if i should continue attacking her of which now is my main consent. I mean, why should he threaten me because of a stranger if there's really nothing going on between them?. Pls, I do not want to lose my husband but all these leave me confused. Am I supposed to just sit and watch another woman snatch my husband just like that without fighting for him?
I'm restless. I have this feeling that, this lady knows exactly what she's doing, i do not want to lose my marriage pls. i beg for your advice and guidance on how to go about this issue"
