Hey . Let me share this with the ladies.
If you're interested in a guy and you see a future or a chance with him, don't rush to accept a proposal. Also, do not over stretch him. A guy who wants to just sleep with you an disappear can stick around for as long as it takes. A guy who is serious about you may stay but know that you are replacable. He may love you but have to let you go at some point.
Personally, I have a project that naturally draws a lot of ladies to me. In order not to hurt anyone, I make sure to filter infatuation, lust and love carefully before making any move lest I end up proposing to every nice lady who comes around.
I proposed to one lady some years ago after sticking close as a friend for about 6 months or so. She got to know me well but tossed me for a while. I was okay. Later, she said I should still wait. Well, exactly one year and some months, she was now about to decide but at that point, I had to go through several phases and I healed myself of the trouble. When she was ready, I was unavailable emotionally so I couldn't continue with her. Little did I know it took a deep toll on her.
I did my best to keep her around and we are still friends today. She blames herself anytime we talk about or laugh it but it had to make her calm because nothing could be done about it. She would have been my first relationship. 🤦♂️
If you like someone, don't waste their time. Don't make them a backup.
Hope this helps someone
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